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Questionnaire help: Estate Planning Goals

This part of the questionnaire asks what matters most to you in your plan. It shows a list of goals under In my estate plan, I want to: Check any that feel important, whether they are firm priorities or topics you want to talk about.


Checking a goal does not commit you to any strategy. It tells your attorney what to keep in mind. There is no right number of boxes.


If you are completing the questionnaire with a spouse or partner, each of you has your own column.


Why these questions matter

Two plans with the same assets can look very different depending on what the people want. Your goals help your attorney shape the plan around your family and your priorities, not only your property.


Checking a goal may mean you want to:

  • Plan ahead for taxes, health care, or incapacity
  • Protect or support certain beneficiaries
  • Deal with a complex family or financial situation
  • Make sure specific wishes are clearly written down


It does not mean a particular strategy will be used. It tells your attorney the topic matters to you.


Goals everyone sees

Select a goal to open it. The questions under each one are prompts to help you decide. You do not need to answer them in writing.


Minimize gift and estate taxes

People range from wanting reasonable tax efficiency to wanting to pay as little tax as the law allows. If you are anywhere on that range, this goal may fit.


You might choose this if:

  • Your estate may be large enough for estate tax. Washington and Oregon tax estates at much lower levels than the federal government.
  • You have made, or plan to make, large gifts during your life.
  • You want to know whether planning now could reduce taxes later.
  • You are open to more complex planning in exchange for lower taxes.
Provide for a disabled beneficiary

A disability may be permanent or temporary, and physical, cognitive, or related to mental health. Planning can support that person without upsetting their benefits or care. For more, see this article.


You might choose this if:

  • A beneficiary has a medical or cognitive condition.
  • A beneficiary receives, or may one day receive, government assistance.
  • You are concerned about someone’s long-term care needs.
  • You want flexibility in how support is provided.
Protect a beneficiary from divorce and creditors

Property left directly to someone can be reached in a divorce, a lawsuit, or by creditors.


You might choose this if:

  • You are concerned that a beneficiary’s spouse could gain access to what you leave.
  • A beneficiary works in a profession with a high risk of lawsuits.
  • You want what you leave to stay protected over time.
  • You are unsure whether a beneficiary would protect an inheritance on their own.
Assist a beneficiary with money management skills

This is about support, not judgment. Many people want to help a beneficiary use an inheritance well.


You might choose this if:

  • You are unsure how a beneficiary would handle a large inheritance.
  • Your beneficiaries have different levels of financial experience or maturity.
  • You want to set guidelines for how the money is used.
  • You want to avoid tension between siblings who receive their shares differently.
Plan for personal illness or disability

This goal is about your own care and affairs if you can no longer manage them.


You might choose this if:

  • You want to be clear about who makes decisions for you.
  • You are concerned about the cost of long-term care.
  • You have health or aging concerns.
  • You want your values respected if you cannot speak for yourself.
Provide for charity

Charitable gifts can reflect your values, your legacy, or your gratitude.


You might choose this if:

  • Supporting charitable causes is important to you.
  • You already give to charity during your life.
  • Charitable giving is a family tradition.
  • You want flexibility in how charitable gifts are made.
Address a family conflict that might impact planning

Some families have dynamics that call for a clear structure.


You might choose this if:

  • There are strained relationships among family members.
  • You are concerned about disputes after your death.
  • You want neutral administration or very clear instructions.
  • You want to ease the emotional burden on your loved ones.
Include specific end-of-life wishes and care

This goal is about dignity and honoring your values at the end of life.


You might choose this if:

  • You have strong feelings about medical treatment or comfort care.
  • Cultural or religious beliefs shape your end-of-life decisions.
  • You want to make decisions easier for your loved ones.
  • You want your wishes clearly written down.
Use an independent trustee or executor

Some people prefer a neutral or professional person to handle their estate.


You might choose this if:

  • You do not want to burden family members with the job.
  • You want the estate handled impartially.
  • Your assets or your family situation are complex.
  • You want to lower the chance of conflict.
Provide for re-housing and care of pets

Pets are often part of the family. For more, see this article.


You might choose this if:

  • You want certainty about who will care for your pets.
  • You want to avoid last-minute decisions.
  • You want to set aside money for their care.


Goals that depend on your situation

These goals appear only when they apply to you.


Provide guardians for minor children

Shown if you have a child under 18. You choose who would raise your children if you cannot.

Provide for grandchildren

Shown if you have children. Planning can reach more than one generation, whether or not you have grandchildren yet.


You might choose this if:

  • You want grandchildren to benefit, now or later.
  • You are interested in education funding or long-term family support.
  • You want flexibility in how property passes beyond your children.
  • You are thinking about your family legacy, not only the next inheritance.
Provide for children from a prior marriage or relationship

Shown if you have children. Blended families often need extra planning to balance fairness and expectations.


You might choose this if:

  • You have children from more than one relationship.
  • You want to support a spouse or partner while saving property for your children.
  • You are concerned about how property could shift after a remarriage.
  • You want to lower the chance of family conflict.
Prepare Powers of Attorney for a young adult child

Shown if you have a child under 26. Once a child turns 18, parents need the child’s own documents to help with their medical or financial matters. For more, see this article.

Help my spouse or partner manage finances

Shown for married couples and partners planning together. Your spouse or partner may need support managing money after you are gone.

Protect assets if my spouse or partner marries someone else

Shown for married couples and partners planning together. You want what you leave to reach your intended beneficiaries even if the survivor remarries.

Understand jointly-held property rights

Shown if you are not married but in a committed relationship. You want to know what happens to property you own together. For more, see this article.

Ensure legal authority of my partner to act for me

Shown if you are not married but in a committed relationship. Unmarried partners usually need documents to act for each other in a medical or financial emergency. For more, see this article.

Understand rights under deceased spouse’s estate plan

Shown if you are widowed. Your late spouse’s plan may give you rights or duties, for example as the beneficiary or trustee of a trust.


Other concerns

At the end of the page, Describe any other concerns you may have: Gives you space to write in your own words. These topics do not have their own box, but you may want to raise them there.


Personal belongings

Items such as jewelry, art, heirlooms, or collections.


You may want to raise this if:

  • You want particular items to go to particular people.
  • Some items have financial or sentimental value.
  • You are concerned about how belongings will be divided.
Special real estate

Some property needs extra planning, especially when a family wants to keep it.


You may want to raise this if:

  • You own a vacation home or shared family property.
  • You want a property to stay in the family.
  • You are concerned about how several beneficiaries would manage a property together.
Gifts of cash

Some people prefer to leave a set amount rather than a percentage.


You may want to raise this if:

  • You want to give a specific dollar amount to a person or charity.
  • You want a simple gift without a trust.
  • You want certain people to receive a set amount however large your estate is.
Keeping property on one side of the family

Some property is meant to stay with a particular side of the family.


You may want to raise this if:

  • You want property to stay within your bloodline.
  • You own property jointly with relatives.
  • There are existing agreements about how property must pass.
Beneficiaries other than your spouse at the first death

Some people want certain property to pass to others while a spouse is still living.


You may want to raise this if:

  • You have children from a prior relationship.
  • You want a business or a particular asset to go directly to someone else.
  • You want flexibility in how benefits are shared between a spouse and others.
Planning for several children

When several children are involved, family dynamics can matter a great deal.


You may want to raise this if:

  • You are unsure whether equal shares feel fair in your situation.
  • Your children have very different needs or circumstances.
  • You are concerned about conflict between them.
  • You want to support long-term family harmony.


Want to read more?

These articles go deeper into these topics and goals. They are optional to read.

  • Estate tax: How federal, Washington, and Oregon estate tax work. See this article.
  • Outright or in a trust: The choices for how beneficiaries receive what you leave. See this article.
  • Trusts for a surviving spouse: What to consider when providing for a spouse. See this article.
  • Family property: Keeping a cabin or vacation home in the family. See this article.
  • Guardians: Choosing someone to raise your children. See this article.
  • Will or Revocable Trust: Choosing the core document for your plan. See this article for Washington or for Oregon.

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